by 123pizza on September 7, 2013

Funny Internet Spam for eMail and Websites is Spicy

tl;dr: If you want your spam filter to work it is best to have your plug-in activated.

Oh. My. Goodness. It has been a nightmare here for months. I have had spam running out the whazzoo and have not been able to control it. Spam took over my comments. I take a wee break from the blog and all of a sudden I have over 3,000 comments. All of them spam but not marked as spam. I start marking them spam and after some time I’m overwhelmed and log out. I should have had the smarts to check my plug-in but why would I have deactivated it so why should I check it? Or better yet, why would I even have that thought because I’m in a panic so I can’t think straight. I tell hubby. He checks it. He does some research and suggests I change my password. I change my password and immediately forget it. I’m good like that.

Fast forward to yesterday. I’m in the mood to tackle some of the spam but can’t remember my password. I have the password reset sent to my blog email. Blog email can’t open because server is having problems. I also noticed I have over 396,000 emails waiting for me to deal with them. I’m pretty sure it’s all spam. At this point I want to bang my head on something but I won’t because it will hurt so I’ll mentally do it. The awesome sys admin hubby comes to the rescue. He backed up my blog database and deleted all spam. I don’t know how long he worked on this mess but it was a long time. He’s awesome. He also did it while sick. I think he deserves a medal. I’ll have to remember to give him one of his half marathon medals hanging on the wall as a token of my appreciation.

I checked the blog this morning and the spam filter is working. YAY! I also happened to remember my new password (hubby found a work around for that one also). Here’s to hoping I can get back to blogging to whenever the blog bug bites. We all know by now it’s not frequent.

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Help With Communicating

by 123pizza on March 7, 2013

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I’ve mentioned before in some post way back when that I might someday blog about #2′s school situation so here it is. This year is his first year in junior high. It has been quite an adjustment for him. It has also been an adjustment for me as a parent because I am now dealing with an administration that does not know him. For those that are new to my blog #2 has asperger’s.

The first week of school was quite rough for him and resulted in school suspension. I approved the suspension and discussed with the administration that the behavioral issues were in his file along with the situational triggers. I don’t think the school ever read his file. I’m quite certain the IEP wasn’t ever read because well…I just know because when parent/teacher conferences happened I got a huge apology from the administration.

There were other things that happened to lead up to what I’m getting to but I’m not going to go into detail. Instead I’m going to get to the point. I eventually had to get an attorney to help us. I had talked to a couple of friends that are Special Education instructors and followed their advice. I researched the laws the best I could for our state and it looked as though the school was walking the line on being legal/illegal. I didn’t think I would ever get to this point but #2 needed an advocate.

The experience with the attorney has been wonderful. It has NOT been a fighting situation. We have not been demanding in that the school provide for our son. We needed help in communicating. Our first meeting with our attorney’s advocates, the school administration, and the school’s attorney was very informative. I had to laugh when the school’s attorney said #2′s behavior was typical of a child with autism. The school administration loves #2 and wants him to succeed. They are working with us to make that happen.

We’ve had testing done on him that the school has paid for so we can all better understand #2. The results were fascinating. We found out this behavior was happening a lot more than we were told about in elementary school but they ignored it thinking he would grow out of it. Well, he didn’t and here we are. The attorney has taught me a lot more about what can go into an IEP that I didn’t know was possible. Same with a behavioral plan. This has been a very positive experience.

The school has noticed in difference in #2 since we’ve all been working together and the flow of communication is better. #2 has more confidence and his behavioral issues are improving. I think a lot of that is from the results of the testing. We as parents were able to learn more about #2 and how he thinks. We are able to better taylor our wording towards him. We had no idea he didn’t recognize emotions within himself. If he was feeling mad, he didn’t know how to express he was mad because he didn’t know mad in himself. He could tell the emotion mad in others but not in him.

I am very thankful I stepped up and got an attorney for #2. It has been a positive experience not only for us but I think for the school administration. I don’t know how often schools have parents with attorneys that want to work with school instead of being demanding. Our goal was better communication. We didn’t want to fight therefore we didn’t.

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January 23, 2013

I have a calendar on the fridge that I write down all family activities: dr appointments, kiddos school projects, somewhere someone has to be and the time, birthdays, anniversaries, blah, blah, blah. I have a school planner I write down my school assignments in and sometimes write my assignments on the family calendar if there […]

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Kitty Kitty Meow Meow

January 19, 2013

Kitty Kitty Meow Meow has an auto immune disease. He’s been taking experimental shots that had been helping him but now he’s not doing well. He’s not eating anymore. He’s too skinny. The vet is out of the shots and we are on a call list for when the shots arrive. All he does is […]

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January 3, 2013

I’m slowly but surely going to try to get back in the habit of blogging again. It’s been a long time since I’ve felt like I’ve had anything to share. I’m getting ready to start my last semester at this school then I’ll transfer to finish for a bachelor’s degree. The past year we have […]

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November 27, 2012

It’s that time again when I decide if I’m going to do the OKC half marathon or not. This year I’m doing it. This year I am focusing on the walking instead of the running so I don’t risk injury right before and have to do the 5K instead. Been there done that and don’t […]

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September 28, 2012

I have noticed that in times of tragedy people will place blame in order to try to make sense of things. In my observations if it is an incident that involves children or adolescents then the parents and school administration are blamed. “If the parents were involved in their children’s lives then this wouldn’t have […]

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Teaching the Kiddos…

September 1, 2012

…about safe sex. I don’t remember how we got on the subject this evening but it’s one of those topics we openly discuss with our children. Photo Credit: Hey Paul Studios

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Big Smiles

August 15, 2012

I have big smiles this morning. I received an email from the teachers that taught #2 last year. They miss him and wanted to wish him a good year at junior high. I had tears as I read the email. It’s moments like this that make me realize how awesome our school is and how […]

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I can knit.

August 14, 2012

Since I can knit and I have a new tablet that doesn’t have a case yet, I decided to knit one. This will work until more cases are available and I find one I want. This is a Nexus 7 but the case will work for a Kindle Fire since they are about the same […]

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